Table of Contents
The 6 Big Ones: The Choice Is Yours 1
The 7 Habits Crash Course: They Make You or Break You 5
Decision 1 School: I'm Totally Stressed Out! 29
School Checkup 30
Sticking It Out 32
Surviving and Thriving 36
Finding Your Voice 43
Off to College 46
Decision 2 Friends: So Fun … So Fickle 55
Friends … So Fun … So Fickle 56
Friends Checkup 57
Surviving the Everyday Ups and Downs of Friendships 58
Making and Being a Friend 65
Peer Pressure 68
Decision 3 Parents: How Embarrassing! 81
Parents … How Embarrassing! 82
Parents Checkup 83
The Relationship Bank Account 84
You're So Annoying 87
Closing the Gap 91
When You Have to Raise Your Parents 95
Decision 4 Dating & Sex: Do We Have to Talk About This? 103
Dating and Sex-Do We Have to Talk About This? 104
Dating and Sex Checkup 105
Intelligent Dating 106
The Four Great Sex Myths 116
Love Waits 117
True Love 120
Decision 5 Addictions: It's Not Hard to Quit … I've Done It a Dozen Times 127
Addictions Checkup 129
Three Brutal Realities 130
No, It's Not Just About You 132
The Truth, the Whole Truth, and Nothing but 133
Striking at the Root 136
Decision 6 Self-Worth: If Only I Were Better Looking 149
Self-Worth 150
Self-Worth Checkup 151
The Social Mirror and the True Mirror 152
Character and Competence 158
Conquering Your El Guapo 174
Stick to the Code: It's Worth Fighting For! 181