Table of Contents
Introduction xvii
Part 1 Understanding Bulimia
Chapter 1 Questions Most Often Asked about Bulimia
What is bulimia? 25
How many people have bulimia? 27
How is bulimia related to other eating disorders? 28
Why do people become bulimic? 32
Why are bulimics mainly women? 38
Do men have bulimia? 41
How in bulimia related to sexual trauma? 43
How does bulimia affect my relationships? 46
What is a typical binge? 48
What are the medical dangers? 50
What thoughts and feelings are associated with bulimia? 53
What other behaviors do bulimics share? 56
How do I know if I have bulimia? 57
How long does it take to get better? 58
Can medication help in recovery? 60
How do I learn to eat normally? 62
If I quit purging, will I gain weight? 64
How do I choose a therapist? 65
What can I do to help someone who has bulimia? 68
What can be done to prevent eating disorders? 69
Chapter 2 Eat Without Fear: A True Story of Recovery from Bulimia
Beginning 74
Living with a Habit 81
Marriage with a Secret life 83
Shift in Focus 86
Turning Point 90
Ending the Behavior 92
Lasting Recovery 97
Part 1 Overcoming Bulimia
Chapter 3 Getting Started
Deciding to Stop 103
Things to do Instead of Bingeing 106
Setting Reasonable Goals 109
Getting Support 111
Family Support 116
Encouragement: Why Get Better? 122
Chapter 4 Professional Treatment
Individual Therapy 126
Types of Therapy 129
Inpatient and Outpatient Care 133
Medical and Dental Exams 135
Chapter 5 Tools for Recovery: What Has Worked for Many
1 Looking Beyond the Symptoms 138
2 Trusting the Process 139
3 Journal Writing 141
4 Taking Time for Relaxation and Meditation 145
5 Practicing Mindfulness 148
6 Being Authentic 150
7 Expressing Yourself 153
8 Thinking Positively 156
9 Visualization 161
10 Feeling Your Feelings 163
11 Improving Body Image 165
12 Cultivating Relationships 175
13 Finding Your Purpose 180
14 Pursuing Spirituality 183
15 Handling Setbacks and Preventing Relapse 186
Chapter 6 Healthy Weight, Eating, and Exercise
Healthy Weight 189
Healthy Eating 195
Healthy Exercise 209
Chapter 7 Advice for Loved Ones
General Suggestions 214
Food and Eating 216
Care for the Caregiver 218
Specifically for Parents 219
Specifically for Spouses and Life Partners 220
Chapter 8 A Two-Week Program to Stop Bingeing 223
Resources 261
Bibliography 267
Index 271