Table of Contents
Acknowledgments vii
Foreword Kathy Freston ix
Chapter 1 Vegans, Vegetarians, and Meat Eaters in Relationships: The Problem and the Promise 1
Chapter 2 Relationship Resilience: The Foundation of Healthy Relationships 13
Chapter 3 Becoming Allies: Understanding and Bridging Differences 41
Chapter 4 The Hidden Dances That Shape Relationships 65
Chapter 5 Carnism: The Invisible Intruder in Veg/Non-Veg Relationships 75
Chapter 6 Being Vegan: Living and Relating Sustainably in a Non-Vegan World 97
Chapter 7 Unraveling Conflict: Principles and Tools for Conflict Prevention and Management 123
Chapter 8 Effective Communication: Practical Skills for Successful Conversations 149
Chapter 9 Change: Strategies for Acceptance and Tools for Transformation 177
Appendix 1 List of Needs 201
Appendix 2 Secondary Traumatic Stress Symptom Checklist 203
Appendix 3 Sample Conflict 205
Appendix 4 Chain of Conflict Chart 208
Appendix 5 Chain of Conflict Guiding Questions 214
Appendix 6 Requesting a Vegan Ally 217
Appendix 7 Requesting Compassionate Witnessing 220
Appendix 8 Requesting Respect 221
Appendix 9 Letter to Non-Vegan 223